Dating Advice for Women

Posted on January 14th, 2008 in relationship coaching

Hi all

Believe it or not, the dating advice for women that I give is not that different from the dating advice for men that I give my coaching clients.

First know what you want from a relationship before you consider going out with someone. Are you looking for a casual couple of dates or a long term commitment?

Knowing this you can easily make a quick decision on whether to say yes or no to a potential date. Some guys just have player written all over them. These guys are fine for a short term romance but your radar should go haywire with do not trespass signals if you are looking for something more long term.

Next based on your first decision you can narrow down your choices on where to meet your next Mr. Right.

Short term fling? Bars and clubs or your local coffee house are a good place to look. Long term romance more your style? Check into your local clubs ( ex. racketball club, book club, etc…) and organizations ( young entrepreneurs, volunteer groups , etc…). Pick a club that you actually have an interest in and you will at least know that the two of you have something in common right off the bat.

Third, if at all possible, ask around about your potential date before saying yes.

Most of us have a dating reputation, whether we know it or not. If he is the love em and leavem type there are probably some other women who have been left waiting by the phone the day after.

Fourth, again if at all possible, try to arrange a double date for your first time out.

Often our friends are better able to judge our dates better than we can. Your best gal pal can probably see all the dents in his armor better than you can. You want everything to be perfect. She will help you steer clear of what will soon be obvious to you three dates down the line. On top of that you will have someone who knows exactly where you are on your first date and can help get you out of there if your creep radar was on the blink.

These are just a few tips from the dating advice for women and men that I give my relationship coaching clients. Start out knowing what you want from your relationship and it will help weed out the bad dates and lead to the right relationship.

Sincerely,

Caterina Christakos - author of the Seduction Game for Women

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