Romantic Love Does Exist

Posted on March 16th, 2008 in relationship coaching

Hi all

I have been in a seminar for the last several weekends that has really revived my belief in romance. While taking Daniel Olson’s NLP Practitioner training I have had the chance to meet some amazing women that are actually walking the talk of good relationships.

One woman, from France, has a view of relationships that one only seems to see in the movies. She and her husband recently renewed their vows and her face still lights up after nine years of being together. She absolutely believes in love at first site and the power of “what is meant to be.” Another woman in the group considers her husband as her best friend and is able to maintain their relationship while working together - an amazing feat.

Some might say, “there must be something in the air.” For example, the husband of one of our neighbors just planted a rose garden in his wife’s honor for their anniversary. Others might think that these women just got lucky.

I believe that something more is going on here. Men and women are becoming more savvy where relationships are concerned. We are learning that if you want romantic love then you have to work at it.

Although all the women that attended Dan’s seminar were there to get their NLP certification, when asked what we wanted to get out of the course, we all stated personal goals. We then used NLP techniques to achieve them. The main theme seemed to be to find balance between our careers, our relationships and our need to still feel like confident, desirable women.

As a dating columnist and author, I am always looking for new techniques to share with you and to learn for myself. Several of the techniques we learned this weekend focused on letting go of the guilt associated with doing things for ourselves so that we could have the positive energy to devote to our relationships. It was amazing how every woman in the room seemed to have the exact same issues. We all want to have our careers and our own interests while still keeping the romance and devotion alive in our relationships. Once you let go of the guilt, it is amazing how much time becomes available for both.Balance seems to occur when we allow ourselves to feel loving, not just to others but to ourselves. It is incredible how some of the NLP techniques taught in this course helped dissolve the confusion. They also seemed to open up a whole new level of communication for these women in their relationships. Within the first day we were all reporting the ability to read the body language of our significant others on a whole new level.

If you are looking for new ways to relate to others, view yourself and achieve balance then I highly recommend Dan’s course. It isn’t touted as a “relationship course” but the techniques that you will learn can be applied to every area of your life.

Let me know when you take the course. I would love to post your feedback.

Sincerely,

Caterina Christakos - founder of seductiondiva.com - a positive place for women and girls

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