SeductionDiva

Feminization of the American Male - Is it Nature or Nurture?

Posted on July 1st, 2008 in Dating Dillemas

Does your guy throw a hissy if you don’t call at least once a day? Does he need to know where you are every second? Does he complain that your career gets more attention than he does?

I hate to tell you this but you are dating a “chick.”

And it may not be his fault. For decades we have complained that we want men to be more sensitive. And now, unfortunately, we have gotten our wish.

Men have taken this desire a bit too much to heart. They haven’t understood that we want them to be strong and manly yet able to have a meaningful conversation.

Telivision ads and the beauty industry have not helped. Now we not only have them going to the gym but buffing, scrubbing and moisturizing as much as we do. Have you seen the number of men with highlights in their hair? My roots show more often than my male friends these days.

I guess the question is,” Can a real man be sensitive without losing that inherintly masculine part of himself that draws us to the opposite sex in the first place or should we all just move to Alaska where not all of them have access to Sex in the City?”